9 months… we’ve been together for 9 months now as a newly wedding… (well, not very new now..)
Time really flew like a thunder. very fast and beautiful! hahaha.. YAP, its been a beautiful 9 months.
There are times we were sharing our thoughts, our emotions and also yes.. our fight.
but at the end, those fight brought us closer than ever. We still cuddle till morning in every fight, so why bother with the fight. hahaha.. ^_^
This month, is a holy month. Our first Ramadhan month. Since last couple of months, we were having a critical financial crisis due to the unstable economy condition in Malaysia. Its been a crazy months for both of us. This crisis made me thought about the unfortunate people outside. Whenever i thought about them, i feel relieved and grateful. My condition is nothing compared to them. Far too good actually. I felt sorry for them.
In this Ramadhan, everything seems to went well again. Maybe not 100% recover from the crisis and we still need to be more caution and remind ourselves to save the money for the future. We also agreed to keep a fix saving account for emergency cases. Maybe after October after Eidul Adha celebration which falls on September. This year, i do not have any new cloth or anything special, but… i guess thats ok. I dont need one, I still have new cloth to wear. Lets just be modest this year. He also helped in cleaning the house for this celebration. Im truly satisfied and got nothing to wish for now.
Our first destination, will be my village and after that on the first eid day, we will be leaving for his hometown for 4 days. This year, as a sign of my courtesy as a Daughter in Law (DIL), i willingly offered to celebrate the eid in his hometown first. Its a must! I have been taught like that since i was a baby. Thanks to my parents! Im having such a PURE heart am i? hahahaha..
My mission today, is to update my block (even i dont have anything to say) and complete the cleaning process (my part) and also buy something for the celebration. Happy ramadhan and Happy Eidul Fitr for those who celebrate it especially Malaysian! 😀
I say Heyo! you say HoyHoyHoy!
I do not know how to express my feeling and how thankful and happy i am now living side by side with a very loving husband and little naughty kitty! OH yes, i got a KITTY!
This kitty was not adopted by us willingly, but was given to us to be adopted!
Originally, this kitty was my mom’s kitty. the kitty mummy named Aning, Aning had delivered 3 little sweet kittens at my mom’s house. A yellow kitten we named him as Kuning (Yellow in Bahasa), another one is white with a black nose which we called her Uteh (White in Bahasa), well… we usually named our cats based on their hair color. hahaha. But, one of the kitten have a mixed color (white, black and yellow) which we called her as Joker because his face was so funny and somehow ‘ugly’ in a very cute way just like JOKER character! cute character but evil. hahaha.
A month after, these kittens become slow and inactive. My mom said they were sick and we dont know why. We went to the VET and get some vitamins for them. At the end, Kuning died and left Joker and Uteh behind. That time, Joker is the only kitten that very active and strong. My mom was very concern about Uteh and ask me to bring her back to my home in Kuala Lumpur. She wanted me to take care of her before she died like Kuning. So, i brought her to my KL house and rename her from Uteh to Bubu.. and the story of us the newly wed with a kitty begins. 😀
Me & my husband was so afraid that she might died in our house, so we took care of her and give her love as much as we can. We bought her toys, high quality food and other cat’s needs .. we brush her hair and play with her all the time. Well, we basically spoiled her. and yes, SHE’s SPOILED, REALLY spoiled… ~.~”?
Thankfully, after 1 week she showed a very good progress and become more healthy. She actively played and always shows her cuteness and charms. now, its been 3 months.. Shes grown up. She grew so fast i can say. Based on the cat’s age schedule if shes a 3 months kitten, shes a 5 years old human. In 3 years time, she will be older than me. =.=”?
Over time, I went to visit my mom’s house once in a while, and we brought Bubu along. My mom always said bubu have become a KL’s cat. Well, bubu actually an indoor cat. So she rarely went out and play with dirts and grass like other cats such as Joker. I also gave her a can wet foods and kibbles only coz its more convenience for us as we living in a 20 level building. But, at my mom’s house, she gave rice to the cats. Once bubu get that, she ate a lots! i mean.. A LOTS! i thought her tummy will explode anytime!. Thats why, my mom said, bubu is a KL cat.. she totally lost it there. She looks very cute with her big tummy, it was funny. But, somehow its bad for her health.
Well, meet bubu.. the naughty kitty. She love to play hide & seek and a good football player too!
mymes : most of the time, people ask me about baby.. and i show BUBU picture to them. Haha.. 😛
The definition of Marriage of a 2 Months Wife..
Marriage is about one person fighting another like they were an eternity enemy and yet they still hugged and say good night to each other.
Marriage is about finding your partner in crime every morning once you opened your eyes, and your partner not there you just totally felt like HEART BROKEN and hate yourself for not waking up to hug them and saying “take care and i love you” before they went to work.
Marriage… is… when you live with a stranger, you hate all your new routines yet you still doing it without fail every day just because you want to spend more time with this stranger cuddling each other, eating oreo ice cream while watching “Tricked” by Ben on TV till you fall asleep.
Marriage is about loving the imperfection of your love perfectly.
Marriage is an extension of ‘its complicated’ relationship status. It is beyond complicated but… at the end.. no matter how complicated this marriage is, you just know that you love this person and that person will love you like they always did since the day 1 you met each other.
with this 2 months wife definition.. I am grateful that i’ve married this man.
May this love remain unchanged as it is now and keep on blooming till Jannah.
Because being with him, doing nothing is all that i need in my life. A safe and calm place. ^_^
Dear husband, Tea Mo.
Yana & Wahid Solemnization :-
Yana & Wahid Reception @ Teluk Panglima Garang
Wahid & Yana Reception @ Malacca
“hAHaHa, its DIFFERENT! MAJOR DIFFERENT!!!” and they continuuuues laughing… (ohmy, theres no ending of this)
This really happened not only here.. All married couple face this kind of problems. Its like a problem without solution! What makes me feel weird is, if we looked back to our ancestors, grandparents, many of them were married ONCE only, which is with each other. HOW amazing is that?
In today’s world…
Many says, life AFTER married is totally different from BEFORE married. Some of them said, their wonderful and amazing life BEFORE married, turn out to be a not so wonderful and less amazing AFTER their married. Certain of these some people even regretted their decision and miss being a single lady.
According to them (to burn the HOT conversation).. They also said.. Life BEFORE married more like a FANTASY in our dream. Very tempting, seducing and full of loves and laughs until the time you ACTUALLY marry the guy! Starting from that moment, you’ll understand what is the true meaning of marriage and its called REALITY!
I was smiling and laugh my heart out listening to their stories. Everyone have different stories, but at the end they agreed and make the conclusion that “YES, ITS A TOTAL DIFFERENT THINGS”. In order to prepare myself for my REALITY, i’ve got many advices, good informations and also worst situations from them too. Suddenly I realized, OHMYKitty!, all these stories that I heard, is not just a stories. I need to be careful and take a precaution step to prevent this from happening in my story!. I stopped laughing and listened carefully to every said words. I was planning. I was thinking and finding the solution.
10 CUTE THINGS WE DO BEFORE MARRIED
1. We says ‘I LOVE U’ like a 1000000 times to our partners
2. We held their hand like we never wanna let it go, ever! (even if they need to go to the toilet)
3. We do surprises and give gifts
4. We say ITS OK, and smile when they makes mistakes (even if you feels like dying)
5. We do love shot in the public!
6. We want them to follow and join all activities with families, friends and colleagues
7. We bring them to watch movies and share a SMALL popcorn
8. We exchange our selfie with each other
9. We updates our activities all the time
10. We Will never let them walk alone!
10 less CUTE THINGS WE DO AFTER MARRIED
– nothing from the above –
It shouldn’t be like this! In my definition.. Marriage is not about having each other only, its about sharing responsibilities and problems together. Well, It would be nice for having a brainstorming partner for the rest of our life isnt?. Do not try to solve everything by your own, at the end you will feel lonely, like you were the only one who give it all into that marriage. From there, every negative things will occurs and all those nonsense issues will be brought up and etc etc. SO DONT! DONT Start it. You should know which one is your JOB SCOPE as husband, and which is for WIFE. Do not interfere with each other job scope, you dont have to control everything. You dont have to be an angle trying to solve everything. YOU actually limit and underestimate your partner sense of responsibility. There will be NO BOSS in the house, only a GUIDELINES. Once you understand and practice using the guidelines properly, we will minimize the issues and hopefully can live happily together.
Still.. yes it is true that theres many things need to be changed when you live with a stranger, you need to learn to adapt and accept it. YOU should aware of this changes once you replied “I DO”. SO, whats the issues? I didnt know how my story will end, but i hope it will end with happiness just like how its all started. 🙂
Anyhow, SMILE and LIVE your life to the fullest! Wehe!!
Mymesj : love to plan my life, bit by bit. Should i list all the possible future issues with the solutions too? Maybe, i should. hahaha..